Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Heading for the Holy Land...



I'm gearing up for Southview's trip to Israel! I'll leave Saturday - it's my first trip there and I'm very excited! 34 Southviewers, friends, and family members are coming with us. You can follow the trip at http://www.southviewisraeltrip.blogspot.com!


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Sunday, September 6, 2009

Labor Day Weekend Miscellaneous

"Politics is the art of looking for trouble, finding it, misdiagnosing it, and then misapplying the wrong remedies." --Groucho Marx (courtesy of Dr. Voddie Baucham)

Random musings this Labor Day weekend...

1. Just finished Baucham's book Family Driven Faith this week. Amazing - I highly recommend it, especially if you're considering home schooling vs. government schools.

2. So great to have the girls back home!!!!!

3. Great day at Southview this morning! It was great to see some of our folks who've been gone this summer back with us.

4. Wow - the Washington Post's Charles Krauthammer writes a great column this week - check it out here.

5. Did I mention it's great to have the girls back home???

Here's a picture from when we were all at Char's mom's house in August - I'm going to try and get some new pics uploaded this weekend.



6. ROLL TIDE! :)

Friday, August 7, 2009

Leadership Summit, Day 2

Again, Rob Wegner did an awesome job taking detailed notes of each of the sessions this year. You can check out his blog here.

Here are some quotes that I'll be pondering in the days ahead.

Session 5a - Dave Gibbons - Third Culture Leadership

"Third culture is the mindset and will to love, learn, and serve in any culture even in the midst of pain and discomfort."

"Obedience is more important than passion."

"Maybe the Christian life is more about obedience than about how we feel."

Session 5b - Andrew Rugasira - Aid vs. Trade

Africa is made up of 53 countries with over 900 million people.

"Trade is the only sustainable way to help communities out of poverty - not aid (handouts)."

"Aid undermines accountability and reduces economic growth."

"People have been told for so long that they can't help themselves, that help has to come from outside, that they have begun to believe it."

"Reconstruct the narrative in your mind. Kindness doesn't come through handouts; it comes through helping people to help themselves."

Session 5c - Wess Stafford - Leveraging Your Past

This was one of the best Summit sessions I can remember in 10 years of attending. This one's in my crockpot - something's happening with this.

"In God's economy, nothing is wasted - everything can be redeemed."

"If you don't forgive them, you are carrying them around and you allow them to live rent free in your heart. What you did to me will not shape the rest of my life. You took my yesterday; you cannot have my tomorrow. You took my childhood; you cannot have my future. Unforgivenness is an open invitation to Satan's bondage in our lives."

"Forgiveness may not mean forgetting, that everything is ok; release from consequences of actions; or reconciliation. Forgiveness does mean giving up our right to revenge."

Session 6 - David Gergen - Eyewitness to Power

"Some are born with leadership gifts; some are born with the making of it. In either case, we have to work to develop our gift constantly."

"Reflective practices - getting out in the arena and actually doing it; then reflecting afterward on what we did right and wrong. What should I do differently next time? What went really well? Constantly learning and reading in our effort to improve."

"Not every reader's a leader, but every leader's a reader."

"It is tempting as a leader to confuse motion with progress. The best leaders are the ones who think carefully about what they are attempting to accomplish."

"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."

"Those who listen to communicators want to know three things: are you being straight with me? Are you being authentic? Do you know what you're talking about?"

"The personal habits of leaders matter so much. Self-discipline is essential. The best leaders in my judgment are the ones who have regular habits. Churchill would work hard in the morning, take a nap in the afternoon, then he would work more. Be in control of your life. Leadership is physically demanding, so be physically fit. If your body is flabby, it's a good sign your mind is flabby. [Incredibly convicting] You must build time into your day to reflect. You must build time into the day to be with people you cherish and who cherish you."

"Hubris destroys a leader. Faith, family, and friends are the anchors that keep you grounded."

Session 7 - Chip and Dan Heath - Switch

"Look for what is working in your organization. Study it and clone it."

"Bright spots are indicators that you are capable of solving your problems."

"There is a lot of data that is TBU - true but useless."

Hope... Valley of insight... Confidence

"Failure can be an early warning sign of success." (Thomas Watson - IBM - "Why would I fire you? I just spent $10 million educating you!")

Session 8 - Bono, The Church - Three Years Later

"Sometimes, we need to give a handout. Sometimes, we need to give a hand up. Both are valued in the Kingdom."

"The concept of neighbor has completely changed."

Session 9 - Tony Blair - The Irreducible Core of Leadership

"Every leader should have an irreducible core that cannot be chipped away."

"The final duty I owed my country was to do what I thought was right and if they disagreed, they would vote me out of office. Say what you believe, stand by it, and if necessary, fall by it."

"I found it was a great assistance to me to be prepared to walk away, not in petulant way. Be prepared to say, "This position matters to me. But, it doesn't matter more to me than doing the right thing.""

"In the world there are those who are running a commentary and there are those who are shaping the world around them."

"Hybels asked, 'Leaders take a lot of hits, pain and disappointment. How do you deal with that?' Blair: 'By counting my blessings. I get home, all the abuse is heaped on me, I'm ticked off, and my wife would say, 'What are you complaining about. It's a privilege to do this job.' You can never forget that. Every day I was doing that job, it was a privilege. Whatever pain or disappointment you accumulate it's like nothing compared to the blessings you have had. Look how much I have been given.'"

We must know as leaders what our irreducible core is.

Session 10 - Bill Hybels - Closing

"What is my irreducible core? What, if asked to compromise on that, would I respond "no deal?""

Consider making it a priority to every day:

1. Establish a time and place to meet privately with God
2. Commit to reading good books 30 minutes every day.
3. Review your replenishment strategy.
4. Commit now and every day to say yes to God when He asks you to do something.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Leadership Summit, Day 1

You can check out Rob Wegner's blog here for some great notes from the sessions today. Below are some of my takeaways from the day's speakers.

Session 1 - Bill Hybels - Leading in a New Reality

"Living out the first century dream in the twenty-first century"

"Nobody's coming to church looking for a mild dose of God anymore. They want the full, real deal. They are coming to meet with God."

"What would we stop doing first? That's C. What would we stop doing next? That's B. What would we NEVER stop doing? That's A."

"God does His great works through people who are fully devoted to Him, whose hearts are fully His."

"When you are in sync with the Spirit, it leads to life and peace."

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Session 2a - Roundtable Panel - Hiring, Firing, and Board Meltdowns

"Lots of people love Jesus but don't have a cultural fit in a particular church."

"When you're in need, you idealize the person."

"Going with your gut is great, but only after you have all the facts."

"It is not compassionate not to be honest with people. We must have compassion with candor."

"If you hold people accountable, they will either improve or leave."

"Leading with all diligence means getting better."

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Session 2b - Gary Hamel - Manage Differently NOW


"In too many cases, churches are convocations for the converted and the content."

"Unprecedented changes bring unprecedented opportunities, but they require unprecedented strategies."

"When an organization misses the future, it's usually not because it was unknowable; it's because it was unpalatable."

"Humility is not just a virtue - it's a survival strategy. Do we welcome or stifle dissent?"

"The longer you're in the trenches, the easier it is to mistake the edge of your rut for the horizon."

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Session 3 - Tim Keller - Leading People to the Prodigal God

"The parable of the prodigal son - there are two ways we see to get the Father's stuff - be very, very bad (the younger son) or be very, very good (the elder son). Both love things more than the Father."

"Religion says 'I obey, therefore I am accepted.' The Gospel says 'I am accepted because of what God did in Jesus, therefore I obey.'"

"You can't stay angry and bitter with someone unless you feel superior to them."

"We must beware of elder brotherism in our lives."

"Our good works keep us from seeing that we are sinners saved only by grace."

"There was no way to bring the younger son home except at the expense of the older brother."

"That young man didn't have a true elder brother who cared for him as he should have; but we do."

"The sacrifice of Christ humbles us out of our self-righteousness and elevates us out of our insecurity."

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Session 4a - Jessica Jackley and the KIVA story


I was captivated by this session's content. I didn't write a single thing down - this was awesome. Here's a quick summary courtesy of Rob Wegner

"KIVA's mission is to connect people through lending to alleviate poverty. A change in mindset is what will change the world. When you believe that a woman in poverty in a third world country can do powerful things, people will take action. A lot of my ideas about poverty are tied to shame, fear, otherness. KIVA creates opportunity for us to connect in dignity and respect, the false dichotomy, rich and poor, have and have-not. That's healthy for the world, when we change the way we believe in each other, we can change the world."

This was amazing. A way to help others with dignity and respect, not a government program or handout, but connecting to and helping others through the technology of the web. Check them out here.

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Session 4b - Harvey Carey - Against All Odds

"The challenge is to equip members for the work of the ministry, not to do it all yourself."

"Sunday morning is mobilizing time."

"We huddle every week but most never break to play the game."

Very challenging session. It's so important to put feet to our words - just like James says.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Quote to ponder

"The more subsidized it is, the less free it is. What is known as 'free education' is the least free of all, for it is a state-owned institution; it is socialized education--just like socialized medicine or the socialized post office--and cannot possibly be separated from political control."

- Frank Chodorov, (1887-1966), American thinker, writer, and libertarian. The quote is from Why Free Schools Are Not Free.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Summer reading list

Well, the girls have been gone for 6 weeks - it has not passed quickly enough for me! They've been down in Mississippi visiting Char's mom. I'm looking forward to their coming home very soon!

While they've been gone, I've been doing a lot of reading - here's what I've read over the last 6 weeks:

1. Book 4 of the Zion Chronicles - A Light in Zion by Brock and Bodie Thoene

2. Book 5 of the Zion Chronicles - The Key to Zion by Brock and Bodie Thoene

I really like Brock and Bodie Thoene's books. They are historical fiction - well worth reading in my opinion.

3. Book 1 of the Zion Covenant - Vienna Prelude by Brock and Bodie Thoene

4. Book 2 of the Zion Covenant - Prague Counterpoint by Brock and Bodie Thoene

5. Book 3 of the Zion Covenant - Munich Signature by Brock and Bodie Thoene

6. Book 4 of the Zion Covenant - Jerusalem Interlude by Brock and Bodie Thoene

7. Book 5 of the Zion Covenant - Danzig Passage by Bodie and Brock Thoene

8. Book 6 of the Zion Covenant - Warsaw Requiem by Bodie and Brock Thoene

Great series - thoroughly enjoyed it.

9. Tenth Stone by Bodie and Brock Thoene

Their newest series, and this just came out - great addition to the series.

10. Brave New World by Aldous Huxley

HATED this book. I've wanted to read it for years and finally checked it out while I was at the library - absolutely terrible. I like 1984 and Farenheit 451 - hated this one. Would not recommend it at all.

11. How Doctors Think by Jerome Groopman

Great book! Recommended to me by Mike Watson, and I've already loaned it to a friend. Excellent read that I would recommend without reservation to anyone who deals with the medical community.

12. I am not but I know I am by Louie Giglio

13. Out of their faces and into their shoes by John Kramp

These two were recommended to me by a member of our church, Silver. Great books - I was challenged by the Giglio book, and the Kramp book was a good read on relational evangelism. I'd recommend them both to you.

Currently working on:

1. Leadership by Rudy Giuliani

2. On the Preparation and Delivery of Sermons by John Broadus

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Quote of the day

"Committees decide what other people should do. Ministry teams do the work together." --Ed Stetzer

Good word.